this is the version of coaching that actually works on operators, not the "how are you feeling" version, the "what are you avoiding deciding" version.. i've watched founders answer a question like this in a board prep session and change the whole recommendation on the spot. curious which of these you find people flinch at first, that's usually the one that matters most
Really excited to sit down with these- just out of fascination- what would question #17 be?
Question #17 was very shy. So he deicided not to be. And then he lost himself. And disappeared. But your curiosity is calling him back to life :)
It's like me. Really skilled at disappearing in a crowd. Probably fear of being seen lol.
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1. felt like automatic meditation. very similar experience to the "sound of silence" meditation I used to do.
2. :)
3. 404 error in head😵💫
4. :)
5. it just happened ig. following what I wanted.
6. 🥺I feel sorry
7. getting hurt in pursuing my wants. the pain of feeling lonely.
8. took more than 20 times to feel anything. so much rigidity. then finally some warmth and a :)
9. deeper connection with parents. a relationship that feels secure. a biz with a team full of love and enthusiasm.
10. the part which wants to give and receive love.
11. "I get rigid and hesitant to share what's happening in my life because I fear I will be shamed".
12. I have everything I need to start living the life I want.
13. comfort and pleasure of living in fantasy.
14. shame.
15. comfort of not having to do the scary work.
16. threat to who I am
18. to hurt others by speaking your truth and damaging the relationship. parents. woa!!😦
19. 💜
20. 😮I would do what I love, speak whatever comes from love without filter - live the life I want.
21. whoever I am right now. empowering!
Wow! I love reading this. Thanks for sharing your reflections
this is the version of coaching that actually works on operators, not the "how are you feeling" version, the "what are you avoiding deciding" version.. i've watched founders answer a question like this in a board prep session and change the whole recommendation on the spot. curious which of these you find people flinch at first, that's usually the one that matters most
All of these are amazing questions. Saving this post so I can return to them again.
If I’m trying to mindlessly scroll I gotta avoid your posts haha